Sunday, June 27
Inter-racial Part 1
Inter-racial datin and marriages have always been a huge deal and a interest to me...with the proliferation of media these days we get a lot more exposure to beautiful men and women around the world...ppl shallow Singaporeans dont get to see a lot of...till this day u still get Chinese Singaporeans who wouldnt date outside their race for reasons i'd get into later...and Singaporeans in general who cannot fathom why Black is Beautiful, White is Wonderful and Yellow is Yucky :)
Till this day i still continue to confuse and surprise myself...my greatest affairs are with women of Indian and mixed-parentage descent...most Chinese would stiffen at the sight of a beautiful Caucasian or Indian woman...they see them as unatainable...i like to see them as a challenge...afterall...they're the ppl i can most relate to...
Like most Singaporeans my age...im a 2nd generation Chinese...unlike most Singaporeans...my parents hail from Malaysia...heck i was born there too...my parents shipped to greener pastures in Singapore with an intent of makin a livin here...
We've all seen this before...from the Chinese in North America who left China to escape the war...Chinese being shipped to N.A to build railroads...yet regardless of their attempts to assimilate into their new society the Chinese have never been really succesful...
I believe i can relate to that...growin up in Singapore i was never fully comfortable with the Chinese population...i spent my formative years along Campbell Lane...which is right smack in the middle of Little India...i had more Indian neighbors and friends than gooks...which is just as much as i can say bout my racial preference...the Chinese in Singapore tend to be haughty...marryin within their race...and puttin up a nose to just bout every other race here just becoz they're the fuckin majority here...and they come with their own stereotypes...ive heard em all...
"Dont ever sit next to an Indian as they're smelly and dirty"...ok that's just utter hogwash...i cant speak for the Indian nationals who ply their trade as laborers here...but most Indians are modern...sophisticated...and speak English...cant say the same for the Chinese here...do i hear the inability to speak English?
"Marryin a Malay means a change in religion...they marry young and they're stupid"...Oh really? Some of the smartest ppl i know happen to be Malays...yes they marry young...but who's to tell them what to do? If your religion doesnt advocate contraceptives...by all means...a change in religion? Im not the biggest fan of that Muslim enforcement rulin...but hey it's just religion...millions of ppl around the world live their lives without a religion...growin old and dyin comfortably...a new religion wouldnt hurt would it? Malays here ape the niggers in fashion and street speak...so what's not to endear? Cant say the same for the Chinese here...do i hear the inability to NOT conform?
"I cant marry or date an Eurasian/mixed-Asian parentage becoz my parents would not allow it" Eurasians in Singapore are generally a bunch of misunderstood peeps...when they first surfaced after WW2...y'know...Yanks/Stiff Upper-Lips/Nazis/Frenchies/Dutch/Egg Tarts settin up base camp in Phillippines, Thailand and Indonesia...they fuck a local girl...local girl gives birth to a hybrid...hybrid grows up with weird-ass features...they're ostracised...they cant relate...they're confused...and they're more than often VERY ATTRACTIVE (for obvious reasons)...Eurasians in Singapore tend to be very proud of 2 things...1) Their Asian-ness or 2) Their European-ness...ive never seen or known an Eurasian who has embraced both...dont bet on an Eurasian puttin his dollar on both when asked where his loyalty lies...a typical Chinese Singaporean wouldnt be able to put a finger to his inability to mix with them...why? Here's why:
1) They cant speak English
2) Their idea of beautiful is a Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese/Honkie with long straight tresses...impossibly fair complexion...large eyes and a petite physique...sorry...girls like these are a dime a dozen here...and besides...they cant speak English...
3) They feel threatened by the Caucasian/Indian/*insert weird parentage here* features...Chinese find these women incredibly beautiful...but due to hundreds of years of colonisation and media brain-washin these Chinese feel they're fuckin inferior to them...not too much the mixed-Asian parentage...but definitely the Caucasians...
Oh yes Caucasians...now this is where it gets really interestin...read on in Part 2...
Inter-racial datin and marriages have always been a huge deal and a interest to me...with the proliferation of media these days we get a lot more exposure to beautiful men and women around the world...ppl shallow Singaporeans dont get to see a lot of...till this day u still get Chinese Singaporeans who wouldnt date outside their race for reasons i'd get into later...and Singaporeans in general who cannot fathom why Black is Beautiful, White is Wonderful and Yellow is Yucky :)
Till this day i still continue to confuse and surprise myself...my greatest affairs are with women of Indian and mixed-parentage descent...most Chinese would stiffen at the sight of a beautiful Caucasian or Indian woman...they see them as unatainable...i like to see them as a challenge...afterall...they're the ppl i can most relate to...
Like most Singaporeans my age...im a 2nd generation Chinese...unlike most Singaporeans...my parents hail from Malaysia...heck i was born there too...my parents shipped to greener pastures in Singapore with an intent of makin a livin here...
We've all seen this before...from the Chinese in North America who left China to escape the war...Chinese being shipped to N.A to build railroads...yet regardless of their attempts to assimilate into their new society the Chinese have never been really succesful...
I believe i can relate to that...growin up in Singapore i was never fully comfortable with the Chinese population...i spent my formative years along Campbell Lane...which is right smack in the middle of Little India...i had more Indian neighbors and friends than gooks...which is just as much as i can say bout my racial preference...the Chinese in Singapore tend to be haughty...marryin within their race...and puttin up a nose to just bout every other race here just becoz they're the fuckin majority here...and they come with their own stereotypes...ive heard em all...
"Dont ever sit next to an Indian as they're smelly and dirty"...ok that's just utter hogwash...i cant speak for the Indian nationals who ply their trade as laborers here...but most Indians are modern...sophisticated...and speak English...cant say the same for the Chinese here...do i hear the inability to speak English?
"Marryin a Malay means a change in religion...they marry young and they're stupid"...Oh really? Some of the smartest ppl i know happen to be Malays...yes they marry young...but who's to tell them what to do? If your religion doesnt advocate contraceptives...by all means...a change in religion? Im not the biggest fan of that Muslim enforcement rulin...but hey it's just religion...millions of ppl around the world live their lives without a religion...growin old and dyin comfortably...a new religion wouldnt hurt would it? Malays here ape the niggers in fashion and street speak...so what's not to endear? Cant say the same for the Chinese here...do i hear the inability to NOT conform?
"I cant marry or date an Eurasian/mixed-Asian parentage becoz my parents would not allow it" Eurasians in Singapore are generally a bunch of misunderstood peeps...when they first surfaced after WW2...y'know...Yanks/Stiff Upper-Lips/Nazis/Frenchies/Dutch/Egg Tarts settin up base camp in Phillippines, Thailand and Indonesia...they fuck a local girl...local girl gives birth to a hybrid...hybrid grows up with weird-ass features...they're ostracised...they cant relate...they're confused...and they're more than often VERY ATTRACTIVE (for obvious reasons)...Eurasians in Singapore tend to be very proud of 2 things...1) Their Asian-ness or 2) Their European-ness...ive never seen or known an Eurasian who has embraced both...dont bet on an Eurasian puttin his dollar on both when asked where his loyalty lies...a typical Chinese Singaporean wouldnt be able to put a finger to his inability to mix with them...why? Here's why:
1) They cant speak English
2) Their idea of beautiful is a Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese/Honkie with long straight tresses...impossibly fair complexion...large eyes and a petite physique...sorry...girls like these are a dime a dozen here...and besides...they cant speak English...
3) They feel threatened by the Caucasian/Indian/*insert weird parentage here* features...Chinese find these women incredibly beautiful...but due to hundreds of years of colonisation and media brain-washin these Chinese feel they're fuckin inferior to them...not too much the mixed-Asian parentage...but definitely the Caucasians...
Oh yes Caucasians...now this is where it gets really interestin...read on in Part 2...
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