Tuesday, February 24
Virginity...or the lack of it...
The topic of virginity - 'should we save it for marriage?' was all the rage over the weekend...
A harmless weekend article on Sunday Times depictin the valiant efforts of several Singaporean couples choosin to remain celibate for their partners till marriage has caused a minor uproar amongst the different generations of people here...
The plethora of comments seem to be split firmly in 2 camps...those who strongly agree with abstinence...condemnin those who sow their seeds randomly...and those who strongly agree with pre-marital sex...findin reasons to justify their behavior...my allegiance lies with those who practice pre-marital sex...and for obvious reasons...i found myself laughin to no end when i read the reports of the couples...
Take...for example...Shahril Saleh's 3 years' relationship with Nur Idayu Mohamed...they've never kissed...the furthest they've gone is holdin each others' hands...on movie dates they limit their choices to mainly comedies as R(A) movies are out of the question...
Or Kevin Yan's 3 years' relationship with Michelle Lim...staunch Christians...they've vowed to remain virgins until they get married next year...when asked how he avoids temptation...he replies...as-a-matter-of-factly: "I dont just keep away from temptation. I try to flee from it." And he practices his sermons - 2 years ago when a nude scene came on halfway through the screenin of Gangs of New York...he and several of his friends walked out of the cinema...his partin shot? "Scenes like that arent good influence."
Im sorry...but i beg to differ...but before i continue...i would like to take this oppotunity to laugh at the 4 of them...4 pathetic souls...4 stupid blimeys...4 silly overgrown egos who think their faiths binds them together for a higher purpose...and finally...a big FUCK YOU...
I dont know why and how these ppl choose to live their lives...and i do not profess to be able to tell a stranger how to live his either...but one thing i do know...you lead only one life...the fruits of your labor will eventually be reaped...the bad will be damned...the good will be rewarded...yet somehow the notion of all this is seemingly lost on these ignorant fools...
I dont know who these ppl think they are...but they seem to graduate from the school of 'sex is bad and evil'...i find their behavior oppressive...misguidin ppl into appropriatin their lives into the hands of a higher power...tryin to inculcate this behavior to their fellow friends and colleagues...not once considerin their own beliefs...or are unknowingly subjected to ridiculous heckles behind their backs...
There's just no way one can control your sexual inhibitions when ya stripped down to your birthday suit with the one u absolutely adore...skin to skin...cheek to cheek...flesh to flesh...the warmth of your loved one rubbin against your genitals...im sorry...but you are a fuckin MOTARD (moron + retard) if you refuse sex...and walkin out of the cinema coz the scene depicts nudity just tells me ya an ignorant bigot...
Earlier this mornin on Class 95 the Flyin Dutchman and Rod Monteiro had a field day readin out several SMS and answerin phonecalls...i applauded their decision to talk bout this...it's a sore point of contention...many religious factions and pious individuals would squirm in their seats for one...but ultimately they'll be the one suffein..I...for one...would laugh at anyone who stoops so low as to 'preach' their faith...believin in celibacy...and that it's 'special' with your first one...
I do have several friends who still uphold their staunch beliefs on pre-marital sex...as their friend i do not laugh or judge...but as someone who comments on the side...i do shake my head and wonder why people would resort to the things they do...
The topic of virginity - 'should we save it for marriage?' was all the rage over the weekend...
A harmless weekend article on Sunday Times depictin the valiant efforts of several Singaporean couples choosin to remain celibate for their partners till marriage has caused a minor uproar amongst the different generations of people here...
The plethora of comments seem to be split firmly in 2 camps...those who strongly agree with abstinence...condemnin those who sow their seeds randomly...and those who strongly agree with pre-marital sex...findin reasons to justify their behavior...my allegiance lies with those who practice pre-marital sex...and for obvious reasons...i found myself laughin to no end when i read the reports of the couples...
Take...for example...Shahril Saleh's 3 years' relationship with Nur Idayu Mohamed...they've never kissed...the furthest they've gone is holdin each others' hands...on movie dates they limit their choices to mainly comedies as R(A) movies are out of the question...
Or Kevin Yan's 3 years' relationship with Michelle Lim...staunch Christians...they've vowed to remain virgins until they get married next year...when asked how he avoids temptation...he replies...as-a-matter-of-factly: "I dont just keep away from temptation. I try to flee from it." And he practices his sermons - 2 years ago when a nude scene came on halfway through the screenin of Gangs of New York...he and several of his friends walked out of the cinema...his partin shot? "Scenes like that arent good influence."
Im sorry...but i beg to differ...but before i continue...i would like to take this oppotunity to laugh at the 4 of them...4 pathetic souls...4 stupid blimeys...4 silly overgrown egos who think their faiths binds them together for a higher purpose...and finally...a big FUCK YOU...
I dont know why and how these ppl choose to live their lives...and i do not profess to be able to tell a stranger how to live his either...but one thing i do know...you lead only one life...the fruits of your labor will eventually be reaped...the bad will be damned...the good will be rewarded...yet somehow the notion of all this is seemingly lost on these ignorant fools...
I dont know who these ppl think they are...but they seem to graduate from the school of 'sex is bad and evil'...i find their behavior oppressive...misguidin ppl into appropriatin their lives into the hands of a higher power...tryin to inculcate this behavior to their fellow friends and colleagues...not once considerin their own beliefs...or are unknowingly subjected to ridiculous heckles behind their backs...
There's just no way one can control your sexual inhibitions when ya stripped down to your birthday suit with the one u absolutely adore...skin to skin...cheek to cheek...flesh to flesh...the warmth of your loved one rubbin against your genitals...im sorry...but you are a fuckin MOTARD (moron + retard) if you refuse sex...and walkin out of the cinema coz the scene depicts nudity just tells me ya an ignorant bigot...
Earlier this mornin on Class 95 the Flyin Dutchman and Rod Monteiro had a field day readin out several SMS and answerin phonecalls...i applauded their decision to talk bout this...it's a sore point of contention...many religious factions and pious individuals would squirm in their seats for one...but ultimately they'll be the one suffein..I...for one...would laugh at anyone who stoops so low as to 'preach' their faith...believin in celibacy...and that it's 'special' with your first one...
I do have several friends who still uphold their staunch beliefs on pre-marital sex...as their friend i do not laugh or judge...but as someone who comments on the side...i do shake my head and wonder why people would resort to the things they do...
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