Wednesday, February 18

 
Being single...

I just found out...rather embarassingly...that a girl ive had a crush on lately is gettin married...

What a bummer...why do Singaporeans...or rather ppl in general...contract the marriage bug and pursue the forbidden fruit of marriage...solemnisin a formal emotional connection on a piece of paper...

But that's not my gripe...over the years ive read and heard alot bout how Singaporeans are findin it difficult to find a life partner...work and timie restricitions aside...i wonder how difficult it really is to meet and be attracted to someone of the opposite sex...

I mean...seriously...single women and men are out in full force day in day out...wakin up even before the break of dawn...trudgingly makin their way to work...mixin it up with the rush hour traffic...being in close physical proximity and contact with more single counterparts...drawin an imaginery circle around themselves...shuttin themselves from the ppl around them...

How many of them do actually look up and around...still harborin hopes of meetin their one true love...when their other half could potentially be standin right next to them?

It's a perplexin issue...most times it really isnt within our control...ive encountered so few examples where a reunion of man and woman is formed due to the most unpredictable of circumstances...it's even more glaringly amplified in the movies/novels/TV where we have handsome everyday John Smith meetin the Jane Doe girl-next-door...guy knocks into girl...girl drops everythin she's holdin onto the floor...both bend over apologetically to pick things up...look up into each other's eyes..and love blossoms there and then...

If only it were so easy in real life...then again i remember im in Singapore...and there's a reason why SDU exists...ha! the day i sign up for them...that'll be the day...

Ive been single for so long now...sometimes even the most mundane of women would interest me...can u believe that girl i had a crush on was a chinese? OMG...i should go get my brain checked...a complete CAT scan...perhaps pickin up the loose bolt that has fallen off my cranium...

I have a good job...a charming personality...pleasantly attractive...sufferin from no deficiencies or handicaps...yet im painfully single...

Oh well whoever said life was fair? I just hope i dont have to trade what i have now for a woman...that would be really blatantly unjustified unfair...

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